Bohemian Glimpses

My friend and I decided to stay in the bohemian area of Cartagena to bookend our week long cruise in the Southern Carribean.  The area of Getsemani is peaking towards gentrification, and will surpass gentrification as a Four Seasons is being built there.  I love that one tiny hotel refused to sell their property, so they will exist as the Four Seasons is being built around it.   Per my walking tour guide, whose name was Legacy, the area in the past was filled with drugs and prostitution.  The city wanted to change this and began hiring street artists to paint murals in this side of town to change it’s vibe. Murals exist of their version of Mother Earth, or an homage to an elderly man who fell asleep in the same spot daily and died there, and even of three children bandits who are raising their fists in a power symbol to stop gentrification.

 There is a vibrant authentic bohemian energy still that still exists, with local restaurants that have tables on the street next to parked taxis and motorbikes.  Celebratory umbrellas or colorful banners line the streets of makeshift bars in alleys.  There are locals selling art to tourists, and local souvenirs.  Rappers and swindlers follow you and start rapping about what you are wearing, and if you engage with them (for a fee) your story.  A musician plays No Woman No Cry in the background. I hear accents from different countries walk the streets, whose mouths are open in wonder of what they are witnessing.

 Multiple blocks away there are chains that exist, which include Starbucks, McDonalds, and KFC.  But in this little area, only local shop owners, or tiny hotels and bed and breakfasts exist.   As I checked into my bed and breakfast early at Les Lizards, I was greeted with kindness and a second breakfast of a fresh fruit drink, arepas, coffee, and local fruit.  I was told “this is your home,” I could visit the jacuzzi, hang out in the lounge area.  I would only be there for one night, but was offered so much generosity.  Later in the evening, I stood in front of the door and debated to go inside or grab dinner, but I wanted a suggestion. The staff member/owner saw me as he walked down the street and said “you’re right here,” as the door appeared hidden. I queried about dining recommendations, and he escorted me down the street, and talked to the staff.  I sat in the outdoor table on the street and took in the moment.

It was as if I stepped back in time.  This was bohemian Cartagena, but it could be a bohemian town anywhere in the world at one point.  Isn’t this the essence of what directors strive to capture on film? I imagined this was what the East Village was like in the 50’s or Brooklyn back in the day?  Tourists long to linger here, it’s as if you are stepping onto a set that we want to inhale into our memories.

  There’s a dichotomy here of chaos and chill vibe.  Horns are honked on the street by cars taking their time to let people out, and one way streets are blocked.  Music is playing at one restaurant, while rappers are scheming with their boombox down the street. There is a cat begging me for food as I eat.  And yet I am finding a sense of pause as I drink my coconut lemonade, which tastes like a pina colada.  The soft bulbs that line the streets which appear to be pedestrian, make my eyes hazy as if I am in a dream. 

I was here in Cartagena for a short time, but I wouldn’t be surprised if I come back.  Who knows if this place will remain the same? Will the authentic vibe outlast the tourism that seems to be booming here and the Four Seasons to premiere in Spring 2026? Not sure, but for a moment todo es tranquilo.

Have you ever visited Cartagena, or a place so bohemian you stepped back in time? If so where? What was it like?

Holiday Travels

It’s that time of year, when people have accumulated vacation time to visit friends and family throughout the world.  Highways are crowded, trains are booked, and flights are delayed.  Generally it’s not my favorite time to travel, as the world is temporarily filled with chaos as people are trying to reach their destination.

            I can’t help but observe fellow travellers around me.  As I write this, I finished my second flight to Panama and awaiting my third to head to Colombia, for a week long cruise.  The first flight was two hours late, from the tiny airport in SLO.  I kept my cool, because my layover of four hours had space.  But others didn’t.  As we landed in Terminal 7 in LAX, some of us walked towards Bradley International terminal.  The shuttle was closed temporarily for 30 minutes. We had the option of waiting or leaving the airport, walking 10-15 minutes, going back through TSA to head to our gates.  One family was worried, they didn’t know if they would make it in time.  Another man in his 60s decided to walk, I walked with him.  As we walked we shared stories.  “I have to make this flight to Tahiti, I haven’t spent Christmas with my family in 30 years.” He had travelled from Denver, a delayed flight, made it to another flight, and was determined to make this particular flight on Air France.  He was meeting his family in Tahiti as his sister and her partner have been sailing the world for six months and the family decided why not meet in Tahiti.  I said I was headed to Colombia.  He reminisced while briskly walking. “I lived there for a month when I was 17, with two other expats. Someone let us rent their place for $8 for the whole month. “ He proceeded to share how he spent six months hitchhiking South America.  What an adventurer.  We parted ways, wished each other luck.  I didn’t know his name, but I will remember his story.

            As I made it to my gate, I sat and wait.  There were 2 Copa Airlines headed to Panama within several minutes of each other. I asked the agent why, if it was overbooked.  She said “we always have two flights.”  I later learned Panama and Copa Airlines is the gateway to the rest of South America.  I listened as people shared their final destination.  One American man said he was headed to Brazil.  The staff member asked for his visa, he didn’t know he needed one and panicked.  Could he get one virtually?  No, it would take five days.  He wanted to still take the plane and just hang out in Panama, she wouldn’t allow it.  I recall my aunt and husband went to Brazil for their wedding, not knowing they too needed visas, until being turned away at the airport.  They headed to NYC for an emergency embassy visit and made the most of their honeymoon.  Noted for future me, check for visas for Brazil. 

            I felt bad for this man, he probably organized everything for this trip.  In my head, I hypothesized he paid for his parking, coordinated vacation days, paid for a pet sitter, hotels, excursions, and this ticket.  Perhaps he wasn’t meant to go to Brazil and will be redirected to go on a journey somewhere else or have a staycation.

            Holiday travels don’t always go as planned, and we need to leave space for this.  It definitely is a time of stress.  I noticed I craved Asian fast food and headed to Panda Express after running to my gate.  A staff member ate Cheetos as she looked at her list of to dos.  People scrolled on their phones to distract themselves from time spent waiting.  Another passenger on the second flight to Panama came to my gate and requested to get on that flight.  The other flight was delayed and he would miss his layover, could he switch? The gate agent said no and would not help him.  I thanked the stars that my plane was not late and I could make my layover.  But this could have been me too.  Yet in the midst of this, I noticed two Nordic travellers having a beer, as I wolfed down my Chinese food.  They appeared as they were in total chill mode, as if they were just having pints at a local bar.  These two seemed to be enjoying the travel moment, something many of us were missing.              During the holidays we all have the potential to be stressed.  Give yourself some grace during this season, and also compassion to your fellow travellers and humans.  You don’t know what they are going through.  Notice the little things that make you smile, however ridiculous.  At this café in Panama as I write this my Almond Cappaccino was $8, the same price as that fellow traveller’s month in Colombia.  The duty free shop was filled with holiday carolers and Mr. and Mrs. Claus available for photo ops.  One bathroom cleaner played Reggaeton as she cleaned the sinks.  In another bathroom, a cleaner wore a holiday reindeer headband.  Somehow they were making the most of the busy work day.  Take in the joy where you can, and spread some if possible.  Notice what’s going on around you, how other people are engaging with the day, observe the moment versus totally distracting yourself from the world.  Find gratitude for what is working.  We’re all just trying to make it to our next de

Present Magic

Today, I opted to walk towards the beach for my morning journaling.  This is a practice I’ve been doing on my days off, while living a five minute stroll downhill from Avila Beach. The sun was just about to rise over the cliffs.  As I walked in the distance, I saw something large moving.  It takes practice and a keen eye to watch areas for movement, and it’s easy to be fooled. It could be simply a larger bird bathing, yesterday I was at a loss, and thought I saw an animal playing with a ball in the distance.  It was a human swimming with a bright orange vest. But today, my eyes stared into the horizon.  As I walked closer, I saw in the water a dolphin, swimming solo towards the sunrise.  I watched with awe and wonder. How grateful I was to witness it.  Another passerby noted, “it’s beautiful isn’t it?”  I pointed out the dolphin I just saw, he informed me he had a seen a group of 20-30 seals that just swam by. 

            I was just about to sit on the cement steps looking onto the pier, when I saw something moving beyond me.  A woman was looking through a telescope at this little being, and as she walked by me she smiled and was wearing an “awe of god” shirt.  The universe was definitely speaking to me.  I walked onto the pier and saw a little otter down below, cleaning himself, having fun rolling in circles in the water. The sun glistened like golden flecks in the water as I stared at him with joy.  He seemed to notice me and I’d like to think he was putting on a show.  On the other end of the pier, I saw something move at the corner of my eye, but did not stay above water for too long.  I caught a glimpse of a seal.

            And although I went to the beach to journal, I spent an hour being mesmerized by what was in my presence… The morning sunrise served as the backdrop for the dolphin, seal, and otter, and the variety of birds that were greeting my morning.  Sometimes life redirects us to just be and witness the magic that lies before us.  But we have to be present to observe this.

            What magic have you witnessed today?

Walking Tour Connections

“Nobody can discover the world for somebody else. Only when we discover it for ourselves does it become common ground and a common bond and we cease to be alone.” -Wendell Berry

            Yesterday, I opted to end my 10 days in Costa Rica with a walking tour of San Jose. It’s an easy way to squeeze in history, exercise, and tourism in a short amount of time.  There were six of us tourists, all solo travellers.  The interesting thing when you travel solo is you are out of your comfort zone, no familiar friends or family to converse with, and you have the opportunity to have conversations with people around the world.

            On the tour, my only fellow American spent the past week clowning around Costa Rica. She literally was clowning, through an organization run by the infamous Patch Adams.  They spread smiles around the world through comedic performance. We were an international group from Ecuador, Colombia, Netherlands, and Scotland. One was brought here for work, another has moved here temporarily as a digital nomad, and most for pure pleasure.

            The day unfolded without much plans, we walked the laid out path our guide had set for us.  But then we inquired about the restaurant he recommended La Esquinita de la Abuela (Grandma’s corner), an awe inspiring place with a cheap menu and local cuisine, decorated as one’s grandmother’s home would be.  Our guide stated “you know how minimalism is popular, but Central America is not that.  Minimalism is boring, we are maximalists.  And this is decorated with maximalism.”  In the corner of the restaurant, where chicken soup was being served, was an homage to St. Martin de Porres with brooms next to him.  Upon exploration of who this Saint was and why was he here, he was a mixed race friar from Peru.  He’s the saint for social justice, racial harmony, and mixed race people.  The broom served as a symbol that all work was sacred, regardless of how small the task.  I felt that in this restaurant that served authentic Costa Rican cuisine in it’s kitchy plates and glasses.  The love was offered to all who entered.

We listened to local stories our guide shared with us over lunch, such as who was author Jose Leon Sanchez.   He allegedly stole La Negrita (the beloved Black Madonna) and condemned to jail for years, and upon release fleeing Costa Rica, and found fame in Mexico City.  We heard about a tradition of people wearing folk masks in small towns, who look like pinata heads but the opposite occurs.  Instead of this pinata like figure being hit, you are hit with a stick, “you know what you may happen if you are too close.” 

 It was as if some of us didn’t want it to end. We enjoyed wandering (flaneuring) the streets taking in the recommended restaurants, cafes, and markets. The 2 ½ hour tour extended to over 8 hours, as we shared our professions, travel history, political views of our countries, and dreams over coffee and shared desserts.  We stumbled to one of the top 100 cafes in the world, and also one of the most beautiful in the local theater.  Our guide told us, if we couldn’t make it to a show, we could get a peak of the theater while walking to the restroom. 

As we walked the streets, I was reminded of the film Before Sunrise, without the romance, and instead of two main characters, there were four. Who knows if we will see each other again, I made sure to share our contacts. Life has a funny way of working out, “we may end up meeting in another country” I told a fellow traveller as I gave her a hug goodbye.

            As we meet strangers, when we travel solo, we have the opportunity to pause and reflect on who we are in this moment, where we’ve come from, and where we opt to go.  What are the stories you choose to share? Where are the destinations you hope to go? What type of life are you stepping into when you return home? Where is home, and will home change? All of this occurs within the backdrop of an unfamiliar country, which adds to the allure of the fleeting moment.  I can’t help but notice the nomadic wanderluster arises in me at times like this.  The 25 year old backpacker who visited 15 countries in one summer, and so many hopes before landing my first full time job.  Do I forever want to wander? Will I ever find one home? At moments like this, I don’t just meet new friends, but meet that old version of myself who still longs for adventure, wonder, and feels ephemeral.

            When’s the last time you’ve met that version of yourself?

The Test

“That step, the heroic first step of the journey, is out of, or over the edge of your boundaries, and it often must be taken before you know that you will be supported.” Joseph Campbell

         Did I really want to move to Paris?  But this was one of the biggest risks I would take.  I had planning it for months, quit my job of 8 ½ years, got rid of my car, put everything in storage, and now was ready to make the Great Resignation during the pandemic to start my new life.   This was all because I was tuning into listening to my intuition and not just following out the logical path.  

But there were numerous tests along the way.  I would have to get a negative covid test 24 hours before, my dogs needed their health certificates, I would navigate sleeping on the floor for five days as the movers came, and numerous other minor details.  But the massive test came several days before.  On Thursday December 16th, France made a declaration that the only people from the UK that could come to France were those with a “compelling reason,” this meant residents, French citizens, or those travelling for a funeral.  I was going to be a new resident, would that count? 

         We had to think quickly.  My mother had flown from the US to assist with the move. Decisions were made for her to fly back in two days to Philadelphia to not chance it of being rejected into the country.  The taxi driving me and my dogs from the United Kingdom to France cancelled on me without giving any alternatives.  I chose instead of freaking out to think of other solutions, I could freak out later.  I called the taxi company pleading to ride with another family days earlier.  I then phoned my moving company to see if my dogs and me could ride with the boxes to France.  Both said no, but I was eventually able to find a company that assisted with ease. 

         For one week, I lived in shock, mania, and extreme caffenation.  I knew I could do this.  I knew I could empty out a four floor house and squeeze into less than 300 square foot apartment.  I made too many sacrifices to quit now.  And I pushed through. 

         I took the risk and it paid off.  

         In the midst of this, everyone is asking the following questions: 

         What do you want to do first thing when you get there?

Answer: sleep and rest (which works because I have to quarantine for 48 hours)         

         Do you speak French?

                                     Answer: No, but I will learn.

         Do you know anyone?

Answer: Acquaintances, but I will meet people in my French classes.

How does it feel to be here? 

                                     Answer: relief, joy, and gratitude.  

And so it is…

Whatever dream that is pulling at your heart, know it’s possible.  Adversities will arise, but so will angels to help you out.

“The big question is whether you are going to be able to say a hearty yes to your adventure.” Joseph Campbell