We are the same

The other day as I sat for breakfast at my Okinawan hotel, I opted to wear my Strawberry Shortcake sweater.  One of the staff members freaked out.  She loved Strawberry Shortcake, remembering from her childhood.  She spent half of it in Okinawa and half in America (specifically North Carolina), she recalled other favorite cartoons from that era: My Little Pony and Care Bears.  I asked how old she was, she didn’t want to say, but admitted to be 46.  “I am 45, we are the same.”  I further went on to try to connect with other beloved animated characters from that era, which included He-man and his sister She-ra, and Jem. 

What was interesting is I had just recently bought this sweater prior to coming to Japan.  She showed me her water bottle, also Strawberry Shortcake, and an I phone case she made with the same image.  She admitted as she got older, and her children aged, this was her time to embrace what she loved in her youth.  It was interesting, because earlier in the week, I just purchased a Hello Kitty keychain and was debating to go into town to get a Hello Kitty hat and a Monchhichi purse, both paraphernalia for us 80s kids. But now I had validation, it was totally ok to get this.  A kindred spirit was doing the same thing on the other side of the world.  She deeply connected with Strawberry Shortcake, as it was not easily found in stores in Japan and was special to her experience.  She had to search this out.  Although Hello Kitty was universal, Monchhichi wasn’t. I was doing the same thing in Okinawa. 

I opted to share with her the California Strawberry Festival which occurs annually near my current residence.  The irony is one of her co-workers had a similar growing up experience.  He was born in Okinawa, but moved to California when his mother remarried.  He lived in nearby town to me for 15 years.  I told her that her colleague was from the same area, and I showed her pictures of the strawberry attire people wore, the strawberry desserts that were served, and the cute crocheted Strawberry hat I bought.  She immediately wrote it down to research later, and vowed she would go one day.  I have no doubt in my mind that one day she will pilgrimage to this festival wearing Strawberry Shortcake attire.  Travelling reminds us of diversity, but it also reminds us of the similarities we hold. And this week was evidence of that.

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